Oh well, if you wanna see pretty pictures, then you're gonna have to click on this link to my blog and then find the link from within! =)
Friday 25 June 2010
Thursday 22 April 2010
I AM ENGAGED!
Yes, I am engaged!
What are you doing here? How many times do I have to repeat myself? Go to www.lingtung.com - Anyway, read my website to find out about the proposal
What are you doing here? How many times do I have to repeat myself? Go to www.lingtung.com - Anyway, read my website to find out about the proposal
Wednesday 10 March 2010
Hello Reader...
Hello! Hello! Hello!
Did you not get the memo?
www.lingtung.com is where it's all happening!
Do you like food and do you like porn? Together, you get the deadly combo of FOOD PORN!!
Yeah, it's all happening in my new foodie blog www.ilovefoodporn.blogspot.com
See y'all there!
Did you not get the memo?
www.lingtung.com is where it's all happening!
Do you like food and do you like porn? Together, you get the deadly combo of FOOD PORN!!
Yeah, it's all happening in my new foodie blog www.ilovefoodporn.blogspot.com
See y'all there!
Tuesday 16 February 2010
SURPRISE!
As promised, I shall reveal my secret...
Last year, I said a beautiful goodbye to my Xanga blog and moved here to Blogger...
Now, I am saying goodbye to my sexy Blogger and moved over here - www.lingtung.com
Everything is there! Please take your time and read through the Archives - I spent months editing and re-editing all the blog posts and even included more secret stuff in there...
Please join me...
Goodbye Blogger, you have served me well...
Last year, I said a beautiful goodbye to my Xanga blog and moved here to Blogger...
Now, I am saying goodbye to my sexy Blogger and moved over here - www.lingtung.com
Everything is there! Please take your time and read through the Archives - I spent months editing and re-editing all the blog posts and even included more secret stuff in there...
Please join me...
Goodbye Blogger, you have served me well...
Sunday 14 February 2010
Trumpets Please...
Faithful fans of my blog know that I declare (to the public) the most important things in my life on my blog first and foremost.
Reminders :-
- When I passed my finals and became a dentist (back then, facebook was non-existent to me)
- When I started and ended relationships
- When I decided to leave UK and go travelling
For some bizarre reason, I constantly update my facebook status to my (some are so-called) friends with my everyday things (some people actually find it entertaining) but I don't use facebook to announce important things.
Whereas, on my blog, I tell you - real friend / silent reader / random stranger / haters but STILL read my blog - ironic but true), the deepest major things in my life.
I have another important secret to share...within 7 days, I will do so. Please stay tuned.
If you're not on my facebook and don't know my current daily status (or if you ARE on my facebook and can't read my status because you don't deserve to know!), then I will let you in this time...
Facebook status of 14/2/10 - Day 3 of being ill. Today I am suffering from a paracetamol-resistant headache and mega-dizzy spells. Determined to get up and go out for dinner. Happy Chinese New Year and Happy Valentine's Day
Within 7 days...I will keep to my word...
Meanwhile, let's see if anyone can guess correctly...please comment (those who are in the knowledge, hush please)
xoxo
Tuesday 26 January 2010
The Honeymoon Stage
I have made a number of friends in Sydney and surprisingly, the majority of them are single.
And if you have been a faithful fan of my 6-year-old blogs, you will know that one of the topics I love to write and talk about is DATING.
My Sydney friends have given me a new name - Love Guru.
I have given guys and girls practical advice about meeting guys/girls and dating guys/girls.
(I will provide links to these blog posts later once I have sorted it out - please be patient with me.)
Anyway, ever since I started dating, these friends have noticed the changes in my appearance. Instead of looking my usual glam self, I have become rather scruffy i.e. no make-up and wearing old rags plus wrinkly forehead (due to Botox wearing off...)
I have confidently shared to them that this is on purpose. After sharing with them, they named me Love Guru. I will now share with you.
Here is the reason why you can afford to look scruffy at the START of a relationship.
Relationships go through many stages.
The initial stage is the "Honeymoon stage" where every day is a happy, smiley, sunny day because you know that you have acquired a newfound other half.
You no longer have to face the dreadful mornings of waking up to go to work or face studies feeling unwanted and unloved because you have acquired a newfound other half.
If you see a couple showing PDA (public displays of affection) or if you hear a love song, you no longer have to pine for someone because you have acquired a newfound other half.
Before you sleep at night, take a look out the window. Because let me tell you something - the moon and the stars that you see are the same moon and stars your newfound other half sees. You can sleep with a silly smile on your face because you have acquired a newfound other half.
Are you with me so far?
So in this Honeymoon period, while your other half is blinded with love / sun / clouds / moon / stars, use this opportunity to show your other half the downgraded version of you.
Girls, this means : wear less make-up or none, if you dare! Dress in your casual wear. Don't wear heels. Wear your glasses instread of contact lenses. Relax your diet and put on a couple of pounds.
Guys, this means : use less hairgel, grow some stubble and workout less.
Girls & Guys - this does NOT mean : Don't shower and stink of B.O. Please continue to brush your teeth and floss!!
Your other half will react in one of two ways :-
1. No change - This is GOOD NEWS. This means that they are so blinded in love with you that no matter what you look like downgraded, they still love you. It means that in the future, when you will eventually downgrade (i.e. cannot maintain your current youthful looks), they will still accept and love you because they have seen it before and won't be shocked when you suddenly have a bad hair/face/body day.
2. Complain - This is also GOOD NEWS. This means that they are superficially in love with you and that they will not accept the downgraded version of you. This relationship will probably end as soon as you have a bad hair/face/body day. Therefore, get rid of them before they get rid of you! You are better off without someone who gives superficial loving.
You don't believe my theory?? Take a look around today.
I bet you will see a hotty with a not-so-hotty - either :-
a) A good-looking hunky guy cuddling up to a short, fat and not-so-good-looking girl
or
b) A spotty, nerdy, lanky guy cuddling up to a hot ass girl
Once upon a time, they were both hotties...but at the Honeymoon period, one of them became not-so-hotty but because the other hotty half was so blinded by love, it did not matter. And they both lived happily ever after. The End.
And if you have been a faithful fan of my 6-year-old blogs, you will know that one of the topics I love to write and talk about is DATING.
My Sydney friends have given me a new name - Love Guru.
I have given guys and girls practical advice about meeting guys/girls and dating guys/girls.
(I will provide links to these blog posts later once I have sorted it out - please be patient with me.)
Anyway, ever since I started dating, these friends have noticed the changes in my appearance. Instead of looking my usual glam self, I have become rather scruffy i.e. no make-up and wearing old rags plus wrinkly forehead (due to Botox wearing off...)
I have confidently shared to them that this is on purpose. After sharing with them, they named me Love Guru. I will now share with you.
Here is the reason why you can afford to look scruffy at the START of a relationship.
Relationships go through many stages.
The initial stage is the "Honeymoon stage" where every day is a happy, smiley, sunny day because you know that you have acquired a newfound other half.
You no longer have to face the dreadful mornings of waking up to go to work or face studies feeling unwanted and unloved because you have acquired a newfound other half.
If you see a couple showing PDA (public displays of affection) or if you hear a love song, you no longer have to pine for someone because you have acquired a newfound other half.
Before you sleep at night, take a look out the window. Because let me tell you something - the moon and the stars that you see are the same moon and stars your newfound other half sees. You can sleep with a silly smile on your face because you have acquired a newfound other half.
Are you with me so far?
So in this Honeymoon period, while your other half is blinded with love / sun / clouds / moon / stars, use this opportunity to show your other half the downgraded version of you.
Girls, this means : wear less make-up or none, if you dare! Dress in your casual wear. Don't wear heels. Wear your glasses instread of contact lenses. Relax your diet and put on a couple of pounds.
Guys, this means : use less hairgel, grow some stubble and workout less.
Girls & Guys - this does NOT mean : Don't shower and stink of B.O. Please continue to brush your teeth and floss!!
Your other half will react in one of two ways :-
1. No change - This is GOOD NEWS. This means that they are so blinded in love with you that no matter what you look like downgraded, they still love you. It means that in the future, when you will eventually downgrade (i.e. cannot maintain your current youthful looks), they will still accept and love you because they have seen it before and won't be shocked when you suddenly have a bad hair/face/body day.
2. Complain - This is also GOOD NEWS. This means that they are superficially in love with you and that they will not accept the downgraded version of you. This relationship will probably end as soon as you have a bad hair/face/body day. Therefore, get rid of them before they get rid of you! You are better off without someone who gives superficial loving.
You don't believe my theory?? Take a look around today.
I bet you will see a hotty with a not-so-hotty - either :-
a) A good-looking hunky guy cuddling up to a short, fat and not-so-good-looking girl
or
b) A spotty, nerdy, lanky guy cuddling up to a hot ass girl
Once upon a time, they were both hotties...but at the Honeymoon period, one of them became not-so-hotty but because the other hotty half was so blinded by love, it did not matter. And they both lived happily ever after. The End.
In A Relationship
After the traumatic break-up of my previous high-profile relationship (you know the one where I was engaged but didn't get married), I knew it was never going to be easy to enter another relationship.
I have noticed that I have behaved differently in this newfound relationship.
Every relationship is different and I am not comparing them. I am just comparing the way I have changed.
1. I have become more private. Instead of announcing the relationship in my usual loud-and-proud manner, i.e. via blog and facebook, I have quietly and subtly declared it slowly. There are no photos of us plastered all over any social networking site. I didn't accept his relationship request on facebook immediately. Maybe I am scared of another failed public relationship?
2. I have become quite insecure. According to him, I constantly ask for his reassurance - "Do you love me?" "Am I pretty?" I mean, seriously, WTF is that? Maybe I am scared he will leave me too?
3. I haven't named our kids yet!!! HAHA!!! Maybe I am just taking it easy in this relationship?
Anyway, I haven't analysed it enough so I am not really sure what it means...
All I know is that I feel extremely blessed and loved and there have not been any crazy dramas yet. Maybe he will tame me, the self-proclaimed drama queen...
I have noticed that I have behaved differently in this newfound relationship.
Every relationship is different and I am not comparing them. I am just comparing the way I have changed.
1. I have become more private. Instead of announcing the relationship in my usual loud-and-proud manner, i.e. via blog and facebook, I have quietly and subtly declared it slowly. There are no photos of us plastered all over any social networking site. I didn't accept his relationship request on facebook immediately. Maybe I am scared of another failed public relationship?
2. I have become quite insecure. According to him, I constantly ask for his reassurance - "Do you love me?" "Am I pretty?" I mean, seriously, WTF is that? Maybe I am scared he will leave me too?
3. I haven't named our kids yet!!! HAHA!!! Maybe I am just taking it easy in this relationship?
Anyway, I haven't analysed it enough so I am not really sure what it means...
All I know is that I feel extremely blessed and loved and there have not been any crazy dramas yet. Maybe he will tame me, the self-proclaimed drama queen...
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